Usually, we bottle up our anger so much that we wind up unleashing it on a man in a way he can’t hear – or we express anger about something completely different than what we’re actually angry about. Our self-esteem depends on how honest we are with ourselves, and the moment we say or do something that is not being true to what’s really going on with us, our self-esteem goes down.Īnd as our self-esteem goes down, we become less attractive.Ī man is naturally drawn to a woman who is in tune with her feelings and who has both the confidence and the self-love to NOT put up with what doesn’t feel good. Here’s why… and what to do instead so you not only say what you really want, but you draw a man closer to you because of it. Just letting out your feelings all over a man by “telling him off” will only push him away.Īnd “stuffing down” your feelings by pretending (to him, or to yourself) that you feel something else will also create distance between you and a man. Next time you’re inclined to either “tell him off” or “hold it in,” follow these steps and watch how they powerfully bring your man closer. Written by Rori Raye, author of Have The Relationship You Want.īottling up your anger or expressing it the wrong way can instantly result in a loss of intimacy in your relationship.
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